I started a book recently called Dying of Whiteness that encouraged further reflection on how some people make things harder on subsequent generations rather than easier. In the dance world which encompasses teaching, learning, dancing and socializing, this materializes in different forms such as:
the instructor teaching methods deemed out-dated or not aligned with Lindy Hop (groove walks anyone?)
organizers not updating their Code of Conducts or having any because they never had this when they started dancing
people not talking openly online or in-person about our social dances originating from Black communities because they think this would exclude or alienate white audiences instead of attracting the world majority
While it can be tough looking at newer generations of dancers or future ones while looking back at your experiences (learning from VHS tapes, reconciling your background appropriating Black dances, seeing that your peers were competing at ALHC while you were muddling in KC), it should be celebrated that you can make someone’s learning journey easier by bringing your meandering messy learning path but fixing the potholes, building bridges to avoid pitfalls and paving the way.